In this article, I will quote & paraphrase excerpts of that discussion that should be relevant to a larger audience while removing any indication of the sister’s identity. I also appreciate your thoughtful discussions and comments towards the end...
Excerpts From the Sister's Questions and Concerns
“… There will be the “hoor al ayn” for every man in paradise. So there is no, we created you in pairs, true true love like soulmates etc…”
Excerpts From My Short (or Shorter) Answers
My short answer is that our happiness in paradise is not based on the same factors in the worldly life!
My Longer Response
Research engineer by profession, Imam by passion; speaker and writer on spirituality, productivity, and Quran